5 Ways to Stop Being Such A Beta

This is a follow on from this fantastic piece: http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/11/21/kill-the-beta-2/

A beta is often exists because of a lack of masculinity and confident behaviours. This usually comes from a lack of strong male role-models growing up alongside the adoption of weak male behaviours being portrayed through film and television.

Being less of a beta means people will respect you more because you do not pander to them. You operate out of how you want to live and care much less about how other people will judge you.

Here are the top 5:

1. Lift Weights – Studies show that doing heavy weights at the gym leads to an increase in Basal Testosterone Levels. Every time you step out of that gym you feeling fucking amazing. Do squats, deadlifts, bench-presses, chins and overhead (military) presses. Read Starting Strength.

2. Spin Plates – Confidence and strong mindsets come from having options. Especially with women. Having a large number of girls to hang out with, text and sleep with makes you much less concerned about the outcome of one particular girl. http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/

3. Adopt Stoicism – The Stoics taught that destructive emotions resulted from errors in judgment. You must develop self-control over your emotions and weak behaviours. The reading list in this article is awesome: http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2009/04/13/stoicism-101-a-practical-guide-for-entrepreneurs/

4. Find Purpose – A man who is sure of where he is going in life and knows what he is doing with his time is very attractive. Being dedicated to your passions and not letting anything get in the way will make you a stronger man.

5. Apologize Less – I’ve had guys apologize to me when I bumped into them. Don’t be that guy. Replace it with ‘my bad’ or  ‘oops’. When you really fuck up, apologize sincerely and it will mean a lot more.
Stay Hungry.

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Freedom Twenty-Five Book Review

One of my respected brothers in the Manosphere, Frost, was kind enough to send me a copy of his upcoming book for review.

Freedom Twenty-Five: A 21st Century Man’s Guide To Life is set for a  release date of December 1st 2011.

Firstly, I really liked it. This is something I wish I had when I first started out in the game. It is a cold hard slap in the face to the un-initiated. A call for men to take control of their lives in matters of health, finances, women and purpose. A roadmap to finding what you really want in life. The beginning is poetic, descriptive and powerful. Frost gives insight into why certain investments are valuable and why getting married young is a bad idea. His personal story is encouraging and provoking.

However, for someone who has been in this community for the last 2 years, many ideas were ones that have already been re-inforced by the manosphere. I would have also liked to see more personal thoughts on dating and seduction. I thought that Roosh’s Day Bang and Mark Manson’s Models would be appropriate companions to his book. What interests me is that the book will also have an online compendium to support the ideas detailed in the book.

I strongly suggest you buy his book.

Stay Hungry.

Girls Who Cheat

It is predicted that up to 25% of women cheat (it’s probably more). I hypothesize that there are a few factors that play into why girls cheat:

1. Hypergamy –  The discarding of  a current mate when the opportunity arises to latch onto a subsequent mate of higher status. Primal instincts will rule us all.

2. Unhappiness in a relationship (boredom/mistreatment) – Girls are unlikely to cheat if they are completely satisfied in their existing relationship.

3. Morals – Girls are given constant opportunities to sleep with other men. But if they were raised in a good family with good values, have a low number of sexual partners (lower the better) and believe in monogamy, they are much less likely to cheat.

 

What can you do to best prevent this:

1. Be Her Best Option – You pray on the incompetence of other suitors. You make it so it’s very difficult to trade up from you. You will have style, status, unshakable confidence, charisma and a crafted look.

2. Learn Game – Know what makes your girl tick. Know how to keep her happy but feeling a little insecure at the same time. Have social, sexual and psychological dominance over her.

3. Screen Well – Learn how to weed out the sluts from your prospective relationship pool. Keep an eye out for red flags. It will lead to much less unhappiness later.

4. Have A Backup Plan – Having other girls on rotation makes you much less concerned if one girl gets caught on a cock carousel. On to the next one.

If a girl does cheat on you, cut her immediately. Go hang out with your bros. Chalk it up to a loss, be sad for a bit, then find a new girl to replace her.

Stay Hungry.

Game

A war rages between the Game and Men’s Right movements at the moment.

Game is not spineless pussy begging.

You do not have to sacrifice any of your values in order to be better with women. Game provides you with a roadmap in order to improve you abilities in interacting with women. Seduction is a dance. Game tells you how to better interpret the steps.

You want to improve your skills. You learn about dominance, leadership, framing, teasing, boldness and escalation. Not only do these skills help you with women, but improve your attitude toward life in general. At no point does there have to be any manipulation, coercion or force into getting a women to do what you want. A women will sleep with you because she enjoys your company and the way you make her feel. No tricks, routines or silly outfits required.

Game is not just about sex. Sex is important, but is only a small part of what game teaches.

Stay Hungry.

 

 

We Are The 1%

Introductory Reading: http://www.rooshv.com/you-did-this-to-me

Soundtrack: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74TFS8r_SMI&NR=1

For most guys, putting conscious effort into talking to, sleeping with and getting girls into relationships seems out of their world-view. Guys aren’t willing to put in the effort to study game in order to get more pussy. Despite going out every weekend to the bars and clubs to try ……and get pussy. Game is too counter-culture and counter-intuitive. There’s too much reading, thinking and struggle involved.  Most guys will find an average girl, get married, have a couple kids, maybe get divorced.

If you have found game. Congratulations, a new world awaits you. You are in the minority of guys who will progressively date hotter women. Sometimes more than 1 at a time. You will sleep with younger attractive women into their 40s and live a lifestyle that herbish betas dream about. You have no fear of dying alone or fears that you will be able to find another woman.

Stay Hungry.

Text Dynamics

Texting is an emotionless medium. You have to read into the text to try and figure out what it all means, don’t let it do your head in. It’s not worth your time.

Time between texts, length of texts, emoticons, speaking style and personal conversations all play into it. With experience, you can figure out how to text as little as possible and still get what you want.

Best advice is to be laconic as possible in your texting. Apply Roissy’s Jumbotron Rule “If the text can be shown on a Jumbotron at an NFL game in front of millions of people, you can text it to her”

This will give girls a million ways to interpret your texts, and you can do all your serious gaming in person.

Recommended Reading: Braddock’s Guide to Texting and Phone Game

Stay Hungry.

Stay Out Of Her Head

The worst thing you can do when becoming invested in any way with a girl is trying to figure out what she’s thinking.

It consumes far too much mental energy and will take you further away from where you want to be. A girl’s brain is a jungle of random bullshit, so just stay out of there. You have far better things to be doing with your time.

Worry less about what she’s thinking and start thinking about what your next move is going to be, independent of what she would think of it. Matter of fact, start thinking about another girl instead.

Stay Hungry.